Family unity

Honestly, family unity today in this modern world has been under a threat. The quest for financial freedom from parents has always been a big issue in most modern homes. Self actualisation and self worth has taken the place of family unity. Parents no longer care much about the amount of quality time spent with the children. We pursue modernity and value the things of the world more than we value families issues and values. We think the children needs only the money to meet up with their ever demanding needs and we neglect their most pressing needs which is spending more time with their families in other inculcate spiritual values into them. The family unit truly is the mercy of the modern world.

The Wedding Ring as a covenant sign and not The worlds most Smallest Handcuff.

I have always been sad when I hear people say the wedding ring is the worlds most smallest handcuff ever made. Little reason why our homes and marriages are in shambles. We are growing up in the mentality that marriages are not working as a result of our bad and myopic vision of about marriage and the significance of the wedding ring.
The ring that is given is a sign of the love and fidelity of the one who gives it. Wearing a wedding ring is not a childs play. Its not a jewellery. I’ve always thought that wearing a wedding ring was a sign of the commitment you are making to your spouse and to your marriage.
Not to pretend that it all depends on you – because it’s about a relationship and a vocation, and about God’s blessing on that relationship. But to see the wearing of the ring as a constant sign of your own re-dedication and re-commitment to this relationship, and to make this continuing acknowledgement of
your marital commitment public by wearing a ring. The ring becomes, as it were, a public profession of your marriage and what it continues to mean to you. This is why in those
films (cf. Bruce Willis in the first scene of Unbreakable), when a husband meets a stranger on a train and starts plotting how he might hook up with her, he quietly slips his wedding ring off and puts it in his pocket.
But I heard the words of the wedding rite as if for the first time, and this is absolutely not what the wearing of the ring signifies. Here they are:
Take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
So the ring that is given is a sign of the love and fidelity of the one who gives it. The ring that you wear, that was placed on your finger by your spouse on your wedding day, does not
represent your commitment to your marriage, your love for your spouse, your faithfulness to this relationship and to the vocation God has called you into, etc. It represents the commitment, love and faithfulness of your spouse to you.
The ring is not there, first of all, as a sign of your continuing commitment to this person (although of course it can come to mean that as well). It’s an ongoing reminder of the promise that the other person has made to you. It’s a sign of the covenant that your
spouse has made with you, and that God has sealed, and that you have freely embraced and entered into. The same covenant that you have also made with your spouse.
I know this is obvious – I’m ashamed to say that I’d just never thought of it before. It changes things.
Many people have given wedding sermons about looking down at the
ring on your finger and choosing to live your marriage and love your spouse. It’s all true, in one sense. But the symbolism of the ring is not, ultimately, about your own efforts or
decisions or commitments, it’s a reminder of the promise that another has made to you, and of the promise that God has made to you both.
I know that life, and marriage, are not always tidy or easy, but I think there is a truth worth pondering here.

Do contradict me, and write in the comments what your wedding ring has meant to you over the years!

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Happy Birthday My Joy

Wishing you a very memorable birthday. You have always been a blessing to many. So today as we gather to celebrate you, we also gather to celebrate your love for all. To pray to God almighty to always keep, bless, prosper and honour you all the days of your life. This is just but a new beginning in the vistas of hope that you have in God. As you have started climbing the mountain of success, we will definitely find you at the peak by this time next year according to the season of life. I bless you today My Peace, My Joy. It is my utmost desire that God through today will bless you beyond measures, exceedingly above all that you will ever think of, IJN, Amen. Happy birthday my Love.

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A Tale of Two Drowning Kids

I thank God that the ocean could not suck Jedd below the surface. Provision was made and rescue secured. But it simply isn’t right that just because Jedd lives in America and can access desperately-needed resources, he can read. And Sammy still can’t.

Colleen Briggs

The waters first lapped at my son’s feet when he was five years-old. I pulled our “twins” (by adoption – they are six weeks apart) from pre-school mid-year when we traveled to Kenya to adopt my daughter, never imagining they would miss the entire second semester. As days melted into weeks, I imposed structure on our nomad existence with “home-school.” One of the boys picked up shapes as easily as bending over to pick up sticks. The other stumbled on simple twigs; I was puzzled. We talked about a triangle on a flash card, then I flipped it over and face up again. He couldn’t remember the name of the shape, although we tried over and over. I didn’t understand this strange current that tugged at Jedd’s mind, but I knew something wasn’t right.

Months later, home in the US, his kindergarten teacher, a literacy teacher, and my husband and I put our heads…

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A Secret Garden That Changed My Life (In Vietnam)

STORIES FROM VIETNAM. Everyone of us has a secret garden that changed our lives

Colleen Briggs

Steamboat Springs riverWe explore a silky summer evening, airbrushed with cool mountain air and golden sinking light. Newly arrived in Steamboat Springs, we wander west. The river is gift enough, flowing like laughter between us. One of those rare series of moments when you feel so alive, so present to where you are, so thankful to love the people you are with. Our four kids skip rocks and play “Pooh Sticks” on a weathered wood bridge. Then we stumble on a gate hidden in a crook of the path. “Yampa Valley Botanic Park,” a humble sign declares. On the other side, brilliant colors beckon from deepening shadows. One of us lifts the latch and the gate creaks open. Just like that, we freely step into an elaborate secret garden. Paths laced with thriving green and flower bursts lure us deeper, all the more enchanting for being so unexpected.

I remember stumbling upon…

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Family unity

Honestly, family unity today in this modern world has been under a threat. The quest for financial freedom from parents has always been a big issue in most modern homes. Self actualisation and self worth has taken the place of family unity. Parents no longer care much about the amount of quality time spent with the children. We pursue modernity and value the things of the world more than we value families issues and values. We think the children needs only the money to meet up with their ever demanding needs and we neglect their most pressing needs which is spending more time with their families in other inculcate spiritual values into them. The family unit truly is the mercy of the modern world.

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